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Why Watch Porn-Is It Bad For You

What is Porn?

Pornography is yet another of those words that means different things to different people. As a descriptive label it sits as the next stage of Erotic Art.when does art become porn

Art is fine but if it has people naked then it is described as erotic but if it is overly sexual then it becomes pornographic.

This is of course subjective as different people have different interpretations as a result of their own values which will determine if an image in their eyes is neutral, stimulating or downright disgusting.

So porn is rather like an elephant…I cannot describe it but would know one when I saw it.

The Attraction of Porn

The largest sexual organ is of course the brain. When it is stimulated you feel arousal and all sorts of pleasant hormones start affecting your body.

And we have five different senses that can be used to get the brain into action.

The body has erogenous zones that send the right messages to the brain when touched.

Your partner may say certain words in a particular way that excites you and there are also the smells coming from your partner and the taste of their love juices.

And of course there is just looking.

When you look at Porn, you do so in safety. There are no performance issues to worry you. They are strangers and cannot judge you.

And your imagination puts you right there as the mind fills in any blanks and you can pretend that you are anywhere from being in total control or total submission.

Good and Bad Porn

Whereas this too is subjective there must be some sort of line beyond which it is not right to wander…even simply out of curiosity to see what the fuss is all about.

You may have all sorts of fantasies involving all sorts of people, toys and places and such fantasies may indeed be harmless and helpful to you.

But without wishing to promote censorship there are surely some images or videos that should not be made let alone viewed.

The two that immediately come to mind are Snuff movies (where someone is actually killed for so called “enjoyment” ) and Child Porn (images of kids as babies up to 12 being used/involved in sexual acts).

If such ideas appeal to you then surely you need some help as such desires are hardly natural and will lead to you being locked up and forever tagged as a Sex Offender.

Who Does Porn Appeal To

Both men and women will admit to having watched porn and enjoyed it. However their reasons do differ.

Men and women have different sexual triggers. Men are primarily visually and externally focused whereas women are primarily psychologically and internally focused.

For men psychological and physical arousal is indistinguishable and porn is seen as an individual thing. They watch a porn-video, masturbate, get an orgasm and thats it.

Among women psychological and physical arousal is not necessarily linked. They think about sex differently than men and watching porn is often their quickest route to an orgasm.

Is Watching Porn Healthy

That depends on so many different things that are personal to the individual concerned.

Spending 10 hours a day watching dirty videos will pass the time but is neither productive or socially acceptable.

It comes down to what is the motivation behind the desire.

Do you wish to indulge a fantasy, get a quick thrill or is it the only source of your sex life?

Do you know yourself well enough to be honest with yourself as to why watching porn pleases or disgusts you.

watching porn can hurt relationships

Is it something that you only do in secret or that you are ashamed of admitting to anyone.

These are questions that only the individual can answer and there are no right or wrong answers. There are only your answers

If you are in a relationship then a habit of watching porn can help or hurt that relationship if it is not discussed.

It will hurt your partner if you watch porn in secret as they might feel threatened by the fact that you prefer watching others have sex rather than spending time (and having sex) with them.

It can help if you watch together and both get ideas which can be fun to experiment with.

Porn is Here To Stay

Even cavemen who daubed paintings on walls thousands of years ago felt the need to put up drawings about sex.

The internet is now a massive library of porn that is instantly available and millions of people use it for that purpose every hour.

Human beings have not yet evolved far enough to suppress the urge to procreate. The sex drive is a mighty urge that nature has put into us to ensure the survival of the species.

We are all hardwired with that drive and watch pornography to satisfy it.

Whether that is good/bad/healthy/positive/negative/unhealthy all depends on your attitude and general approach to life.

But like a lot of things in life there will be those who support it and those that abhor it.

Take something like drugs or alcohol or smoking. All are condemned by some as being addictive, unhealthy and bad for you.

Or take religion or running or being vegan. All are promoted as being healthy and generally good for you.

When all is said and done just remember that you have a choice.

Not everyone will agree with that choice but if it harms nobody and it works for you then…….do it.

Remember ….whether the glass is half full or half empty makes no difference to the glass.

The interpretation as to optimism or pessimism is left to the individual observer. The glass does not care.

So, is porn bad for you?

Only you can decide.

 

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